So this whole Rihanna, Chris Brown story is getting on my nerves.  When the sitiation went down there were so many different versions of what happened.  Some say he caused it and others say she caused it.  In my opinion, it doesn't matter how the argument came about, it doesn't give any right to a man to put his hands on any woman.  And not to mention I will be darned if that man is younger than me and thinks he can get away with it because of his star status.  I don't understand how a woman can put up with an abusive man.  I'm not saying anything about Rihanna because I'm pretty sure their relationship is over now.  But girl, keep your spirits up because he won't get away with it. 

Take it from me, I am a fiesty young lady who puts men in their place when I meet them.  There is no way that I will let a man think he has control over me or be abusive in any way, shape, or form.  Especially with my family here to back me up, he better recognize.  I think one reason that the "situation" wasn't realized before now is because Rihanna doesn't have any crazy girlfriends.  You know the ones that I'm talking about.  Those girlfriends who even suspect the slightest wrong doing and are ready to take a man out, ready to go Angela Bassett on him in Waiting To Exhale.  The get angry for the both of you and handle the situation before it escalates into a bigger situation.  Girl go get you some crazy friends.

Ok so this is a slightly less "this just in" post.  I don't know about anyone else but I get on the internet a lot...well whenever I can.  And I find myself on myspace, facebook, jtv, and other sites trying to reach out to my friends and make new ones.  I know people have their own lives and well so do I now adays (I come home and all I wanna do is eat and sleep after work), but that doesn't mean you can't give a shout out.  I mean if I took the time out of my busy day to think about you or write you an email, text, or message then at least you should respond back.  Right?  I would so much appreciate it. 

On another note, does anyone make friends online that you have never met.  I think about all the strangers out there that know things about me but then I think wow I got to know someone out there in a different place.  That is really cool.  I don't know, lately I find myself feelinig neglected.  With those friends out there in cyber space on all those sites how many are really wanting to be a friend and not just wanting to win a popularity contest?